" My father-in-law is cheating on my mother-in-law and I don't know what to do with this information"

Query: My in-laws and my husband have been a real gift for me. They have been my pillar and strength. I loved my father-in-law like my own dad and the same for my mother. They made an inspiring couple for my husband and me, however, I recently got to know that my father-in-law has been cheating on my MIL for the past 7 years! I was so shocked! I feel so sad for my MIL and husband but I don't know what to do with this information.Should I let them know or keep quiet? This will ruin our family, our peaceful home... I also don't want to bear the brunt of the same ... Please help.
Response by Expert Dr Rachna Khanna Singh: It's a difficult and sensitive situation to manage. It's ultimately up to you whether or not to tell your husband or mother-in-law about this information. Here are some points to think about:
1. Evaluate the situation: Before acting, try to find out more details and make sure the information you've received is accurate.
2. Discuss with your spouse: Share your newfound knowledge with your husband. Before determining the best course of action, you must have an honest and open discussion with him.
3. Think about your mother-in-law's emotions: Consider whether she would want to know the truth and her well-being. While some people may rather keep infidelity a secret, others would wish to address the problem.
4. Seek expert help: To get advice on how to handle this circumstance, you can think about speaking with a therapist or counsellor.
5. Be ready for any repercussions: Recognise that sharing this knowledge could have a big impact on your family's dynamics, so be ready for anything that could happen.
Ultimately, the choice ought to put the happiness and emotional health of all parties concerned first. No one solution works for everyone in this complicated scenario. Hope this helps, for further queries feel free to book an appointment with us.
Stay safe.
Dr Rachna Khurana Singh is a consultant at Mental Health & Behavioral Science, Artemis Hospital, Gurugram. She is a relationship, Lifestyle, and Stress Management Expert. The Director at The Mind & Wellness Clinic. New Delhi
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